yes i’ve had bad experience with bi women it sucks it happens but they werent bad ppl bc they were bi, they were bad ppl bc they were fucking bad ppl? their bisexuality didnt make them assholes. its not fair that all bi women have to pay the price just bc some dumbass who mistreated u happened to be bi like its basic common sense stupid
Also the assumption that bi women don’t take relationships with women seriously is not only classic biphobia because of the “bisexuality is a phase” bs but also, it completely ignores that bi women may be struggling with internalized homophobia and therefore were not ready, and it def sucks if they leave, but it’s really inconsiderate to make them essentially shoving themselves back into the closet about you.
bi women often have to experiment to figure out their sexuality just like anybody else does, sometimes even more so because of all of the stigma surrounding bisexuality. i’m so tired of every bi woman who dates/hooks up with a woman and then dates/hooks up with a man being proclaimed a fake bi or a greedy/confused straight. leaving you for someone of another gender doesn’t mean they were using you. it’s really unfair that bi women are held to these insane standards.
it sucks to get dumped but don’t decide that all bi women are demons as a result of a bi woman dumping you. maybe they didn’t leave you because of your gender; maybe they left you because you didn’t vibe well. or maybe because you’re a biphobic asshole
queerlybeloveds 